Phyllis L. Fagell

About the Author

Phyllis L. Fagell is a renowned school counselor, licensed clinical professional counselor, and parenting columnist for The Washington Post, with over two decades of experience guiding preteens and their families through the turbulent waters of adolescence. Drawing from her frontline work in middle and high schools, she offers practical, empathetic advice that empowers parents to support their children's emotional and social growth. In her acclaimed book, Middle School Matters: The 10 Key Skills Kids Need to Thrive in Middle School and Beyond--and How Parents Can Help, Fagell distills essential strategies for fostering resilience, independence, and academic success. Her insights, informed by real-world observations and psychological expertise, make complex developmental challenges accessible and actionable for families navigating modern parenthood.